Monday, February 2, 2009

.:fRoM whAt i'Ve gOnE tHrouGh:.

from my previous post "why all dis happened"..ada la sorang shabt yg menggelar diri nya '60g nett' leave her/his cmnt..its quite interesting n for me its so sweet, doing such thing..so i've paste back what he/she wrote to me..juz want to share wth uols..

im not a cupid or an angel...
just a fren who want to giv some advices....

sit back n relax...read dis...

Boy: I need someone to talk to.
Girl: I'm always here for you.
Boy: I know.
Girl: What's wrong?
Boy: I like her so much.
Girl: Talk to her.
Boy: I don't know. She won't ever like me.
Girl: Don't say that...you're amazing.
Boy: I just want her to know how I feel.
Girl: Then tell her.
Boy: She won't like me.
Girl: How do you know that?
Boy: I can just tell her...
Girl: Well just tell her.
Boy: What should I say?
Girl: Tell her how much you like her.
Boy: I tell her daily.
Girl: What do you mean?
Boy: I'm always with her...I love her.
Girl: I know how you feel. I have the same problem...but he'll never like me.
Boy: Wait. Who do you like?
Girl: Oh, some boy.
Boy: Oh, she won't like me either.
Girl: She does.
Boy: How do you know?
Girl: Because who wouldn't like you?
Boy: You.
Girl: You're wrong. I love you.
Boy: I love you too.
Girl: So are you going to talk to her?
Boy: I just did.

note to everyone : if you like someone but don't have the guts to tell that person,here's for you--♥it's a waste!! love someone then go and tell them.it doesn't matter if that person likes you in return or not,the point is you try and that you have the guts to tell that person that you really like him/her.in the end of the day,who knows you might found your true love like the boy above or if not,hey,you could still say."i the brave types "
ngeeeee...go find love poeple!

p/s: hurmm..its such a good cmnt n advice actly..but in my real life, i've gone through all dis b4..i had confess wth a girl that i like so much..n its not easy 4 me to open my mouth to say those luv words..but bcoz of my feeling, i beranikan diri i to be a gentleman la kononnye..but i got a bad answer frm her..NO..huhu..tersangat la kecewa shgga kan i da takut untuk membuat apa2 kptsn ttg cinta..myb we can call it as FOBIA..hehe..n from now on, being a couple person its not my intention..juz being frenz wth people around me..until i really2 ready for it..then i'll go for it..yeah..risau pisang berbuah 2 kali..hehe

21 comments:

marinata said...

hehe..gud job..60g nett!!
sy taw sape 60g nett!! haha..
pndai bermadah pujangga..cewah..

abg asrul..
jika anda benar2 mncintai seseorg..
tidak semestinye anda perlu memiliki die..
cinta bukan memiliki..
tp adelah mnyayangi..

ade sorg kwan sy nih..
die prnah tnye sy, nape ade istilah..
'kalo kte betul2 mncintai seseorang, kte lepaskan die utk kbahagian die'..nape ea?
dgn ade ilmu di dada. sy mnjwab, kalo kte syg kn seseorg..
then org tu ade org len,
dan die bhagia ngn org tu..
let her go..
itu barulah namenyer cinta..
bukannye kte brkeras tuk memiliki die..
kte lepaskan die utk kbhagiaan org yg kte syangi..
itulah kasih syg sejati..cewahh.. hehe..

abg asrul..u deserve better..
insyaallah, kalo kte ikhlas mncintai sum1 krn Allah. tak lama lg dpt ler sy makan nasi minyak abg asrul ngeh2 =P..chayok2!! sy akan support abg asrul dr blakang. hehe..terharu x? hehe =P

diyadeary said...

asrul, come n join this giveaways.. :)

http://ceritadia.blogspot.com/2009/02/my-first-ever-giveaway.html

Anonymous said...

you are better than tis bro=)

Anonymous said...

marina bercakap dr pengalaman...
hahahahah

oppsss marina.. sowi...
hahah...

asrulnizam said...

huhu, myb bcoz i luv her then i let her wth her dcsn..
we're same kot marina..hahaha

marina: nak tau sape 60g nett..hehe

marinata said...

ano: haha..taw xpe..pengalaman harus dkongsi brsama2..haha =P

abg asrul: nnt kte tnye tuan pnye bdan dlu ea..hehe..(rase2 nyer cam x ley bgtaw je..ngeh2);P

Anonymous said...

tuan punya blog: aku pun prnh kene cam ko dulu...smpai skrg fobia...ahaha...ala, nnti ko akn jumpa gak d best person utk ko dn aku percaya ko takkan ade masalh utk cari person itu

marina: mantap r komen ko...aku pn terase sme...ehehe

-peace-

munirah said...

huuu~

memiliki belom tentu kita dapat membahagiaknnye dgn sepenoh ati...
lbh baik kita mend0akan kebahagiaan dia dgn 0rg tersyg~

apabila j0d0h smpai...the pers0n will c0me 0ut~
wee~

neway,love dat st0ry...

Anonymous said...

spread your love dear friends~
love is to be shared, not kept...
=)
asalkan cinta tu bertunjang cinta-Nya, insyaALLAH hati kecil ini x kan terluka...

Anonymous said...

heheh...sweet2...

dulu sy pnah xpham+xbsetuju lngsung dgn ayat "perlu mlepaskan dia klu kt syng die". dlm ati,da syng nape kne lpaskan????xbley!huhuu

one time ad sumthin happened kt sy,then,bru sy pham even sgt berstuju ngn ayat tuh.huh~

pd sy,kt hanya ingin memiliki dia sdngkan kt tahu dia akn bhgia ngn org yg dia syng.klu kt syng/cinta dia let her/him go...

if not,waah...pathetic nyer kt sbb xkn pernah mmiliki cinta dia.

Anonymous said...

ingin memiliki dan mencintai 2 perkara berbeza..

bile kita mencintai kita sanggup melakukan ap shj untuk membahagiakan die.. termasukla melepaskannya... huhuu..

skrg ni sye merasai keadaan ini..
hanya mampu melihat dari jauh, wlwpun dekat...
ckupla sekadar menghulurkan persahabatan dan bukan percintaan..
krna tahu jika percintaan dihulurkan pasti memusnah kan persahabtan...
ap yg pasti,biarla dia gembira dgn kehidupannya...
bila dia gembira sya turut gembira...

n bg asrul..
juz concentrate on ur final sem..
pnuhkan dgn memori2 indah dgn kwn2..
u r very lucky dat everyone close to u are care n nice to u...
sadam.. khairun... ur bbgian... ur skandal2 - may be la(wlwpun xtau spe ) haha...

biarla cinta tu datang dgn sendirinya...
kita telah dijanjikan oleh Allah jodoh masing2...
sampai masanya kita kan bertemu jodoh tersebut..
jgn la terlalu risau ttg tu dan jgn la sampai fobia..
itu la namenya lumrah kehidupan..
lumrah yang mewarna-warnikan hidup kita...
yang menjadikan kita matang ttg kehidupn..

n one more thing..
kita bukak la mata n hati kita...
kdg2 kita x sedar yg insan didepan mata, yang selama nya ad disekeliling kita, yg selama ni rapat dgn kita adlah insan yang sesuai kita...
kdg2 disebabkn sifat ego (but i know u r not egoist person) dan terlalu mendambakan org lain menyebabkn kita xsedar n x memberi peluang kpd insan sekeliling..
(juga bertujuan untk mengingati diri ini )

don try thinking too much bout it..
although sumtime we always said dat we're not thinking bout it, but from our action, it revealed everything from d bottom of our heart.. n yang sedar hanyala org sekeliling kita...

Anonymous said...

sperti mengenali insan di atas..

statement kamu mjwad psoalan sy..huhuh..n mcm y sy fikir~

"bile kita mencintai...skrg ni sye merasai keadaan ini..
hanya mampu melihat dari jauh, wlwpun dekat... "

wuuu~terharu...

klu macam tu kamu perlu tabah ya.
tp,hari esok x slalu sperti yg kita harapkan~

=)

diyadeary said...

asrul, ni guidenye..

first, ko subcribe tru email..
- ko masukkan email ko kat bawah patung yg pegang love tu.. pastu folo jela

2nd, ko dah buat.. ko da add aku. so tak yah buat lagi.

3rd, ko tmbh http://diya-deary.blogspot.com kat bloglist ko.. kire sma method yg ats..

4th, ko letak banner diYadEaRY's.... ♥ kat page ko.. code utk banner tu bole dapat blog baru aku.. ko select all n copy.. pastu kat layout blog ko, ko amik add gadjet, pilih yg html/javascript then trus paste code tadi. siap!

5th, ko buat post pasal blog baru aku.. ko buat 1 ayat je pon xpe.. yg penting, ada link kat page ak..

dah siap bnda2 yg ko buat, ko komen kat post giveaway tu.. :)

P/s: x perlu buat semua pon xpe.. sbb ni aku gune random method nk pilih.. :)

diyadeary said...

asrul, bile cakap soal cinta ni mmg susah..

kita susah nk predict hati org..
kdg2, kita rasa kite tau hati die, tp sebenarnye kita silap..

mgkin arini dia cakap syg kita, bulan depan, die dah tak syg kita lgsg.. jgn kata sikit, silap2 sisa pon xde..

betul ckp semua teman2 lain..
klu kita sygkan seseorang, lepaskan dia.. klu dia kembali pada kita, ,mean die mmg ditakdirkan utk kita..

tapi biasa la manusia ni kan.. cakap mmg senang, nk buat susah.. nk let go org yg kita syg, mmg susah.. lagi2 if die balik pada ex die.. ibarat kita ni mcam persinggahan.. thats hurt beb!

mmm.. carila org yg syg kita lebih, dr kita syg die lebih.. sbb kita xtau keadaan di kemudian hari..

erm.. tiba2 rasa cam nak nangis. bole x?

diyadeary said...

cinta.. sesuatu yang suci, tapi ramai yang suka menodainya..

mengapa?

ATIE said...

pergh... sweet gle girl n boy tu.. senangnye kalo cmtu..hahah..(aku baru baca post ni)


aku pun xtau nk ckp ape.. sume telah diperkatakan di atas...

fairuspeng said...

mls la nak baca komen orang lain...

tapi betul cakap asrul...
sekali kena takpe..
sua kali kena sakit..
biar je sakit tu hilang..
bila kita betul-betul bersedia kita cari le...

sampai sekarang ayat filem cinta masih terngiang-ngiang
orang yang paling kita sayang adalah orang yang paling susah untuk disayangi

asrulnizam said...

thanx a lot frenz..
thanx sb sudi berkongsi pendapat dan luahan rasa dan hati masing2..
masing2 berckp berdasarkan pengalaman i guess??rite??

neway..hope all of us will b fine n will b found d true love..i'allah..

~nazma said...

fist time bukak blog asrul. jrg bukak blogspot actually..

hmm macam2 komen pasal cinta ekk..

so xnak komen pape =D

Anonymous said...

aha! asrul! i didnt noe u had this blog....

i have 2 agree with marinata... if u love her thn u shud be able to let her go....

maybe she was not d ONE for u....

GOD has made better plans for u.... u jz have 2 have an open mind n heart... u deserve d best and d best is yet to come... n whn it does, don't forget to send ur wedding invitation ;-)

Ahmad Faris said...

"Kamu tidak pernah tahu bila kamu akan jatuh cinta. namun apabila sampai saatnya itu, raihlah dengan kedua tanganmu,dan jangan biarkan dia pergi dengan sejuta rasa tanda tanya dihatinya "

"Satu-satunya cara agar kita memperolehi kasih sayang, ialah jangan menuntut agar kita dicintai, tetapi mulailah memberi kasih sayang kepada orang lain tanpa mengharapkan balasan."

"Cinta bukanlah kata murah dan lumrah dituturkan dari mulut ke mulut tetapi cinta adalah anugerah Tuhan yang indah dan suci jika manusia dapat menilai kesuciannya.
Bukan laut namanya jika airnya tidak berombak. Bukan cinta namanya jika perasaan tidak pernah terluka. Bukan kekasih namanya jika hatinya tidak pernah merindu dan cemburu."